“There is a syndrome where perfectionism masks a silent depression. You won’t allow your pain or sadness to be expressed. You are petrified of anyone being able to see an inkling of self-doubt or sorrow, fatigue or vulnerability. So you’re seen by others as a “mover and a shaker” – you know how to get things done, and done well. Your life looks great – absolutely no whining coming from you. You count your blessings, every day.
“There’s not a self-pitying bone in your body.”
HERE is a video with Dr. Margaret Rutherford on how some people who seem to have perfect lives are hiding depression.